Anonymous asked: The guy I'm in love with is dating a really nice girl. For a while, I just put him out of my head as anything other than a friend, but about a month ago he told me about some problems with their relationship. A few days later, he asked me what I would do if I were with someone and then met someone else with whom I just had an amazing connection. He said it was a rhetorical question but it changed how I thought about him. The problem is that even if they did break up, I don't want to hurt her.
Three things here, very simple.
- Everyone has problems in their relationship. if they are still going strong and not broken up, it may have just been rough patch.
- You don’t want to be a rebound, no matter how much you want him.
- Continue to be his friend because if you really don’t want to hurt her,then the answer is obvious, find a new man to love and value the friendship you have.
Always here!
-Alexandra
